Author Archives: Roman Hokie


So, Jody Allard has now publicly shamed her two teen sons (between 16 and 19, it seems, from her original post) a second time.  During her first post, she talks about her position on rape culture and misogyny and how … Continue reading

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I don’t understand this.  I’ve seen several friends separate or divorce during my near 20 years of marriage.  Within the Christian community, it’s often said that divorce is a sin, which is many people’s interpretation of the Biblical statement, “I … Continue reading

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Feedback offered to the staff of a world-class mouse-centered theme park in central Florida. Good evening.  Although my family decided on a vacation with your primary competitor in Orlando, we were able and fortunate to spend a few days in … Continue reading

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In this article, the author tells her children that she “couldn’t care less” if they go to college.  Please read the entire article before continuing with my response. While I agree with Cathy’s sentiment, I have to wonder who is … Continue reading

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Adventure.  Something about just saying the word stirs something in my soul.  And adventure just is not the same without friends.  And, when your friends live 650 and 1200 miles away (respectively), much of the fun is getting there!  It … Continue reading

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// View image | I spend a lot of time considering and discussing with others what it means to be a man.  For me, a man is a male who is comfortable in his own skin.  Sounds simple, right? … Continue reading

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